Thoughts on Mothers’ Day

the DWsIt was my teammates who asked if this year’s Mother’s Day was my first.I said yes, beaming. BDW  however quickly corrected me and told me it was my second. I couldn’t believe that I’ve been a mom for two years now. It only seems like yesterday that I was in St. Luke’s crying over my son, completely overwhelmed.

My teammates gave me a huge chocolate cake with caramel sauce for mother’s day. It was awesome and I absolutely appreciated the gesture. More than anything though, I felt awkward,I’m a new mom and I feel that I have yet to earn that “title” yet. Being a mom is a role I took on without any expectations and preparation! I never realized how hard my mom really worked until I became one and now my mom absolutely adores DW and is a great lola to my kid.

What I hold dear now, what I consider the perks of motherhood if you can call it that– is that I have a happy, thriving family who is loved by our own families and friends. DW is a firecracker whose latest achievement is pointing to himself and saying ‘Gi (for Pogi) wahaha! BDW enjoys his work now for it challenges him and he works for a boss that truly trusts his skills and nurtures his talent.

Being a mom made me appreciate my own mom so much more. My mom is the reason for the sense of peace I carry with me when I go to work because I know DW is being cared for by a Lola who loves him to pieces. It was my mom who saved me from the  blues during the first month of giving birth to DW because she let me sleep-in and she allowed me to rest and to gather my wits about me; who encouraged and supported me and BDW when we were just so clueless and overwhelemed with a brand new baby.  The love I feel for my mom now is different. I guess it comes from my own maturity and for finally being in her shoes. It’s absolute appreciation and gratitude.

I salute all mothers and to those who “mother” — those who care and love unconditionally. Hats off to you folks, you all inspire me to be the best mom I could be. And to my mom, I love  you and I thank you for loving me, my husband and most especially your apo :)

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Comments

  1. BDW says:

    hehehe mali pa yung username na nalagay ko :P

  2. DBW says:

    Belated happy mother’s day ulit labs :)

  3. neva says:

    hi maqui! happy mother’s day to you too :D hope you had a great day with aki :D

  4. Maqui says:

    Belated happy mother’s day, neva! and to your mother and to your mommy readers, too!

    I also had postpartum blues and it was my mommy and titas who helped me thru.mothers truly are guardian angels.

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